No one loves anyone else, he loves what he finds of himself in the other. Don't fret if others don't love you. They feel who you are, and you're a stranger. Be who you are, even if never loved. Secure in yourself, you will suffer few sorrows...

To be great, be whole:
Don't exaggerate or leave 
out any part of you.
Be complete in each thing.
Put all you are into the least 
of your acts.
So too in each lake,
with its lofty life,
the whole moon shines...